Comments on: Sample Online Dating Email Messages

By: Jim Bo

Jim Bo — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 03:56:39 +0000

this article was very informative. I have also noticed that direct compliments are cheesy, and they dont respond. I like that you insulted jane humurously, just because she was probably used to non stop compliments, and then was critiqued on something that was actually something that she was fully interested in.

By: Jim Bo

Jim Bo — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 03:52:33 +0000

i ask stupid questions to the ladies every message. i think that it is important to carry on with the conversation. if you just go on about shit ya bore em and they stop responding. Just ask a stupid question about anything and the responses are usually good!

By: HookUpGuy

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By: jake

jake — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 04:13:25 +0000

I noticed that your site is mostly about POF and I was wondering if you did profile critiques? I have one that gets alot of responses for its uniqueness, but doesn’t really ‘hook’ anyone. I was asking if you’d take a look.

By: Emily

Emily — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 22:17:33 +0000

Did you guys go out? How was it?

By: toyboy

toyboy — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 18:32:50 +0000

some good tips there, I've used online dating for a while and know first hand that the more effort you put into your chatting up in initial emails there better the chances there are for having a date agreed. It's not always that simple though – there are times when the women are very forward and will suggest a date out of the blue. It's all down to having a good selection of pics and catchy / interesting profile in my opinion.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 13:56:29 +0000

I'm on POF and am amazed by how many men never ask any questions. Last guy I went out with from there (3 months) proved to be self obsessed and I remember it took him SIX messages to ask me a question, lol. Lesson well and truly learned! Don't always trust what they say in their profile, judge from their behaviour and you will do well.

By: TheGirl

TheGirl — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 18:33:58 +0000

Hey, I'm impressed by the tactics. Email analysis and response is one of those skills that you never know you have til you're staring down the barrel of a dating website…
Still, I've generally found that people are often ready for you to suggest a date a lot sooner than you think – sooner even than seven dates. After all, you're never going to find out if you fancy someone til you meet them – so if you like their profile, and their first email, you might as well suggest a meet up pretty soon after. It's the only way you'll know…